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Stage 3: Mid-Climb

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🏔️ Mid-Climb – The Independent Stage (Building a Routine)

Pushing Through Challenges and Finding Strength

  • You've climbed higher and built resilience. You're no longer just surviving military life—you're learning how to thrive in it.
  • Deployments? PCS? You've done this before. You have strategies, checklists, and a routine that works.
  • You've stopped worrying about fitting in and started carving your own path, mentoring others along the way.

🎯 Challenges (Navigating Harsh Conditions)

  • Balancing your own career aspirations with your spouse's military commitments.
  • Solo parenting during deployments—handling the mental load.
  • Maintaining strong mental health as isolation, fatigue, and stress set in.

✅ What Helps (Adapting to High Altitude)

  • Building routines for PCS, deployments, and parenting challenges.
  • Teaching new climbers (mentoring newer spouses).
  • Creating independent projects (side businesses, hobbies, self-care practices).