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Military Benefits Every Spouse Should Know About (and How to Use Them)

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Military Benefits Every Spouse Should Know About (and How to Use Them)
A Guide to Maximizing Military Spouse Benefits for Healthcare, Education, and Financial Stability

by Taurus M. James

by Taurus M. James

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Are You Using All Your Military Benefits?

Military life comes with stress, sacrifice, and frequent change, but it also comes with valuable benefits—many of which go unused simply because spouses don't know about them.

If you've ever thought:
What benefits do military spouses actually get?
How do I sign up for TRICARE and other healthcare benefits?
Are there financial or education benefits I should be using?

This guide breaks down the must-know benefits for military spouses and explains how to access them so you can make the most of what's available to you.

Step 1: Healthcare & TRICARE Basics for Spouses

📌 What You Get: Military spouses are eligible for TRICARE, the Department of Defense's health insurance program. It covers medical, dental, and vision care at little to no cost.

📌 TRICARE Plans Available for Spouses:
✔ TRICARE Prime – Free or low-cost healthcare on base or through network providers.
✔ TRICARE Select – More provider choices but higher out-of-pocket costs (best for those living far from a base).
✔ TRICARE Dental & Vision – Separate plans cover routine dental cleanings and vision care.
✔ Military Treatment Facilities (MTFs) – On-base hospitals and clinics offer many free healthcare services.

🛠 How to Use It:
✔ Enroll in TRICARE as soon as you're listed in DEERS (Defense Enrollment Eligibility Reporting System).
✔ Visit TRICARE.mil to choose a plan and find providers.
✔ For dental and vision coverage, sign up through the FEDVIP website (only available during open enrollment or with a qualifying life event).

Step 2: Education & Career Support for Military Spouses

📌 What You Get: The military offers scholarships, tuition assistance, and career programs to help spouses pursue education and employment.

📌 Top Education & Career Benefits:
✔ MyCAA Scholarship – Covers up to $4,000 for career training, certifications, and associate degrees for eligible spouses.
✔ GI Bill Transfer – If your spouse qualifies, they can transfer their GI Bill benefits to you, covering college tuition, housing, and fees.
✔ Military Spouse Employment Partnership (MSEP) – Connects spouses with military-friendly employers hiring for remote and portable jobs.
✔ Hiring Our Heroes Military Spouse Fellowship Program – Offers paid fellowships to help spouses transition into new careers.

🛠 How to Use It:
✔ Apply for MyCAA at MyCAA.militaryonesource.mil if your spouse is E-1 to E-6, W-1 to W-2, or O-1 to O-2.
✔ Ask your spouse if they're eligible to transfer GI Bill benefits—this must be done before they leave active duty!
✔ Explore MSEP job listings and career help at msepjobs.militaryonesource.mil.

Step 3: Financial & Housing Benefits for Military Families

📌 What You Get: Military families receive housing allowances, tax benefits, and financial assistance that can help offset the challenges of frequent moves and deployments.

📌 Key Financial Benefits:
✔ Basic Allowance for Housing (BAH) – Helps cover rent or mortgage costs if you live off base.
✔ Commissary & Exchange Discounts – Save 30% or more on groceries and household goods at on-base stores.
✔ VA Home Loans – Buy a home with no down payment, no private mortgage insurance, and lower interest rates.
✔ Savings Deposit Program (SDP) – Earn 10% interest on up to $10,000 in savings while your spouse is deployed.
✔ Financial Counseling & Assistance – Available through Military OneSource and base Family Readiness Centers.

🛠 How to Use It:
✔ Check your BAH rate based on your location at defensetravel.dod.mil/site/bahCalc.cfm.
✔ Shop at commissaries and exchanges using your dependent ID card.
✔ Apply for a VA Home Loan through a military-friendly lender like USAA or Navy Federal.
✔ Contact Military OneSource (800-342-9647) for free financial counseling.

Step 4: Deployment & PCS Move Assistance for Spouses

📌 What You Get: Deployments and PCS moves are part of military life, but support programs exist to make the process easier for families.

📌 Must-Know Deployment & PCS Benefits:
✔ Relocation Assistance – Base Family Support Centers help with moving logistics and paperwork.
✔ Dislocation Allowance (DLA) – A one-time payment to offset moving costs when you PCS.
✔ Childcare Assistance – The Child Development Program (CDP) offers affordable on-base childcare, and Military Child Care in Your Neighborhood (MCCYN) helps cover off-base daycare costs.
✔ Deployment Support Groups – Available through base Family Readiness Programs and online military spouse networks.

🛠 How to Use It:
✔ Before a PCS move, visit Move.mil for relocation resources.
✔ Apply for DLA through your spouse's finance office before the move.
✔ Register for childcare subsidies at MilitaryChildCare.com.
✔ Join a deployment spouse support group on base or through MaleMilitarySpouse.com.

Step 5: Mental Health & Wellness Resources for Spouses

📌 What You Get: Military spouses face stress, loneliness, and mental health challenges, but confidential counseling and wellness programs are available for support.

📌 Mental Health & Wellness Benefits:
✔ Military OneSource Free Counseling – Up to 12 free sessions per issue for spouses.
✔ TRICARE Mental Health Services – Covers therapy, psychiatric care, and crisis support.
✔ Morale, Welfare, and Recreation (MWR) Programs – Discounts on fitness centers, sports leagues, and wellness activities.
✔ Spouse Resiliency Programs – Workshops that teach stress management and coping strategies.

🛠 How to Use It:
✔ Call Military OneSource (800-342-9647) to schedule free counseling.
✔ Find a TRICARE mental health provider at TRICARE.mil.
✔ Visit your base's MWR office to explore fitness and wellness programs.

Final Thoughts

Military benefits aren't just for service members—spouses have access to healthcare, education, financial support, and community resources that can make military life easier.

But the key is knowing how to use them. Take advantage of these programs to secure your family's future, advance your career, and protect your well-being.

➡️ Join the Conversation! What's a military benefit you didn't know about until recently? Drop a comment below!

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